It is not a weakness to seek peer support and (individual or group) supervision. We would suggest that it should be a priority in this type of work, and not optional.
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It can help to maintain realistic expectations about the work, such as not expecting to like PD offenders or be liked by them, and staying calm and not taking things personally. In particular, having realistic expectations about change and what is reasonable and possible, helps in achieving a sense of progress.
Practitioners in forensic services are known for their dark humour – in small doses, it can help to relieve tension and put difficulties in perspective.
Clarity about the job
It helps practitioners to have clarity about the role and responsibilities within the team and within the organisation. Leaders should articulate clear organisational values to which practitioners can feel committed.
Practitioners need to have regular protected reflective time put aside. This ’thinking space’ is used to reflect on how staff work together as a team and with their clients rather than on the management of rotas, tasks and forms, etc. This can help to stimulate personal and professional growth, improve the quality of service delivery and close the gap between principles and practice.
This can sometimes be the only means of gaining praise to balance out criticism.
Reviewing your workload, prioritise, and cut down on “low-yield” work
Develop a healthy support network in and outside work
Have a life outside work
Maintain a healthy work/life balance
Learn to relax
Practice regular stress management, take regular holiday breaks and get enough sleep and rest.
Taking thinking time once a week instead of clearing your in-tray
Chatting informally with peers about cases
Presenting cases to your supervisor and exploring the offender’s life narrative and your responses to it
Drawing on current knowledge to improve your confidence
Knowing when you feel overwhelmed
Getting better at time management and prioritising tasks
Thinking constructively about why a situation went wrong
Giving yourself a pat on the back for something that went well.